Wednesday, September 24, 2014

President’s Message (September 2014)


 

I hadn’t been cycling for the past few years and I almost forgot how to manoeuvre a bike. My sincere thanks to our Vice President of Membership, Edrea who organized ‘The Cycling Day’ on last Tuesday, which refreshed my motor memory. We enjoyed the cycling experience very much and we were enticed by the beauty of Taman Pertanian Bukit Cahaya, Shah Alam. I was also touched by the kindness of our fellow members who helped one another when one of our bikes was having technical problem.

In fact, there were other modes of transportation in Taman Pertanian. Why cycling? Cycling is just good enough to keep us moving and at the same time let us embrace the fascinating nature in Taman Pertanian. We were also traveling in a perfectly eco-friendly manner. The joy of successfully getting to the top of a slope is also indescribable. The excitement of racing down a slope is unimaginable if you have never experienced it. For those who have missed this experience, I can assure you that you will be loving your beating heart, your gasping lungs and your overheated muscles if you were there.
 
 
Life is like a cycling journey. Ups and downs in life are unavoidable, just like the bumpy and sloppy road that we encounter in our cycling journey. Every challenge along the road has made us better cyclists. The potholes, wet tarmac and steep slope are like the obstacles in life; we need to overcome them in order to reach our destination. Similarly, in our Toastmasters’ journey, we may halt when we see the challenging slope or when we reach the first peak. How can we advance and reach our targeted destination?


 
Recently, I had a chat with one member from IBM Toastmasters Club. He felt that his progress is stagnant in Toastmasters’ learning journey. He didn’t see his improvement in this self-development programme. In our conversation, I found out that he has been playing Ah-Counter or Timer role repeatedly in every club meeting. He hasn’t deliver his project speech for months. As a club officer, he arranges speaking slots for his club members, but not for himself. My suggestion to him is to deliver project speeches in our club and try out some other meeting roles to learn different skills.

A straight and easy road will not make us good cyclists. Step out of our comfort zone is the key for our continuous improvement. Fellow members, if you are about to reach the stagnant point, try something new, Toastmasters has a lot to offer! Talk to any of our club officers. Please don’t limit yourself on the smooth road, let’s keep pedaling on the curvy and jerky journey of self-development!

 

 

Chor Chee Hoe, ACB, ALB
President 2014/2015

E-Newsletter (August 2014)


Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

1 April 2014 Meeting - Dream Big, Start Small, Act Now!

At Friendship Toastmasters Club, we're all about going for our dreams, no matter what they may be. It could be one day having your own bistro, being the CEO of a Forbes 500 Company, ruling the world with an iron fist, it doesn't matter ~ these are YOUR dreams. (Okay, that last one might not be as feasible...)

And that's the theme for Friendship Toastmasters Club's 1st of April 2014 meeting.
Dream Big, Start Small, Act Now!
And yes, we know it's the 1st of April, but this is no April Fool jokes - this is the real deal!

The Toastmaster of the Evening was none other than our very own VPE, Geok Ean. She took to the stage with aplomb, and roused the crowd to a good start with her sanguine disposition, cool and collected demeanor, and her subtle and sublime showmanship skills. She brought it!

Our IPP, Alexandra Lau then took the stage for a rousing Invocation Session, where she regaled us with stories about her past and how it gave her a new perspective on life. She shared those lessons with us, and we learned.

Next was the Table Topics session, where our astute and emphatic Treasurer, Chor Chee Hoe, came up with an interesting session which involved creating Table Topics around specific items that the Table Topic Speakers selected from a bag.

3 brave souls volunteered - Mi Shan from Mid Valley Toastmasters Club, Chen Choon from Elite Toastmasters Club, and Dr. Alvin from Sunway Toastmasters Club.

And then it was the Prepared Speech session.

Lenny Pang of Satu Hati Toastmasters Club gave a persuasive speech, inviting us to delve in a world where we see everything for the first time, with child-like wonder.

Your truly did an Advanced Speech (The Radio Talk Show), and talked about the imaginary Three Pines Farm, and the goodness of Organic Farming.

One of our most experienced members, Lay Theng (also our Secretary), then took to the stage to entertain us with a funny but very warm and enticing speech about the wonders of Freedom and what it can do for the human soul.

Our lovely President, Sylvia Tan, came in as the showstopper, and she put on funny-woman mask to share her advice on how to be the Perfect Girlfriend. It brought the house down.

We chatted and ate during the break session, then it was time for more Toastmasters goodness.
Ben Chan started off the third and final session with a few Humorous Stories, befitting his role as Humor Master.

After that, Ken Chan, Division G Governor, made his way to the stage, as the General Evaluator.

Enthusiastic Friendship member, Edrea Poh, did her very first Table Topic Evaluator role. And she passed with flying colors.

Then came the team of Prepared Speech Evaluators:
Mi Shan evaluated Lenny Pang.
Area G3 Governor, Haji Hashim, from Money-Mastery TMC, evaluated yours truly.
Dr. Alvin evaluated Lay Theng.
Chen Choon evaluated Sylvia.

The Technical Evaluators then had their turn:
Ali Reza as the sharp-eared Grammarian.
Kogila as the astute Ah-Counter.
Jeffery as the stalwart TimeKeeper.

When it came to the Awards session, Dr. Alvin bagged Best Table Topic Speaker, Sylvia won Best Project Speaker and Haji Hashim won Best Evaluator.

It may have just started as a small meeting, but by the end, everyone went home with Big Smiles. All because they decided to let their hair down, enjoy themselves and ACT NOW!




Wednesday, December 11, 2013

17 September 2013 Meeting - Storms Make Trees Take Deeper Roots

Despite the theme of the meeting, there was no storm descending down upon Bukit Kiara Equestrian Club. Instead, there was only fun, food, friends, camaraderie and a learning experience to be had by all.

The meeting was helmed by the capable Joachim Yuen from Satu Hati TMC and yours truly launched into a slightly long-winded but humorous Invocation session.

Then Zion Choo took control as Table Topic Master and delivered several interesting (and at times, perplexing) Table Topics to the brave souls who stepped forward.

There was still no storm outside but the roots were getting deeper as 4 intrepid speakers took the stage, confident that they can only grow and take deeper roots by challenging themselves to do their speeches.

Newbie Ali Reza took on some swashbuckling derring-do when he delivered his ice-breaker speech, The Prince of Persia. 

Vice-President of Membership Eri Tang taught us an important lesson with her wise speech, Don't Forget One's Origins.

Our Madam President, the ever-smiling Sylvia Tan took the stage with an Advanced Speech from the Specialty Speeches Advanced Manual. It was the "Uplifting the Spirit" speech and she launched into a rousing speech in Journey to Succeed.

Stalwart member Chee Hoe then made a very smart move, delivering one of his Advanced Speeches in the form of a club-members-EGM meeting, which he fully qualified for by reaching a consensus on choosing a new meeting venue for Friendship Toastmasters Club - and the consensus reached was: Let's go try out 2 places first, and see which one we like. Simplicity rules the night.

After the break, bushy-eyed Lee Tong Fong, from Puchong Mandarin TMC, took the stage as the eagle-eyed and very humorous  General Evaluator.

Table Topics Evaluation was done by Teresa Choong, while Speech Evaluators were Geok Ean, Sylvia Tan, Timothy Nakayama and Alexandra Lau (in that order).

Our VPE Geok Ean did her duty as Grammarian, followed by Wong Mi Shan from Mid Valley Toastmasters Club who told us all how we did with our speech crutches, followed lastly (but not least-ly) by long-time member Sivadas as the Time Master.

The physical storm never came... but if the storm was the challenges of the meeting itself, then the roots in the form of the members and guests certainly dug in a little deeper, a little stronger.


The Roots Against the Storm

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Youth Leadership Program 2013 conducted by Friendship Toastmasters Club

written by Timothy Nakayama
Employers from disparate industries have time and time again arrived at the same conclusion regarding the fresh-faced, eager-eyed crops of fresh graduates who enter the working world year after year, in search of their first jobs: many have the smarts, the work ethics and the right attitude to make fabulous hires, but not as many have the communication and soft people skills that are so essential to thrive in today's increasingly competitive and globalised world. Those involved in the hiring process often lament the fact that while these capable graduates do have the skills and base knowledge to take on their new roles, they are not similarly equipped when it comes to communication and leadership, skills that employers prize just as much, if not more so.

Enter The Youth Leadership Program.

The Youth Leadership Program, or YLP for short, is an informal course in the vital arts of communication and leadership. The structure of the Youth Leadership course is set by Toastmasters International, a non-profit organization that helps people the world over develop their communication and leadership skills. 4 million people around the world have benefitted from Toastmasters clubs since 1924. Those who are over 18 are eligible to join any Toastmasters club throughout the world, whereupon they start with giving project speeches from a basic communication manual before moving on to more advanced communication manuals. The Youth Leadership Program, on the other hand, consists of a condensed version of the speech principles taught in the first few project speeches of the basic Toastmasters' communication manual with the addition of several key leadership concepts and principles. The YLP course has been specifically designed for youths between the ages of 11 to 18.
 
The Youth Leadership Program, in short, is a 2-day course that teaches youths the key principles and concepts of effective communication and leadership and maximises this learning by conducting the entire course in an interactive and hands-on manner that sees participants learning from both the course coordinators and their fellow participants, all within a friendly, positive and supportive environment.

Friendship Toastmasters Club is one of the most established Toastmasters Clubs in the Klang Valley, having been founded in 1998 with the goal of helping people of all ages and walks of life improve their communication and leadership skills. That lofty goal remains even today and that is why Friendship Toastmasters Club decided that it was the right time to conduct their first Youth Leadership Program.

Friendship Toastmasters Club's Youth Leadership Program took place on the 1st and 2nd of June, Saturday and Sunday respectively. The 2-day weekend-long course took place at Wiseed Meeting Center at Merchant Square in Tropicana, PJ. There were 19 participants in total.

The 2-day program was conducted and run by both Toastmasters members from Friendship Toastmasters Club and members from other Toastmasters clubs. The sessions were conducted by seasoned Toastmasters, who all have extensive experience in the art of public speaking and communication and who have also conducted Youth Leadership Program sessions previously.

 

Ice-Breaking Session


Just like adults, some youths can be shy upon first meeting new people. Therefore, the meeting started with an Ice-Breaking session in order to put the youths at ease. The coordinators created a relaxed environment where all participants had the chance to introduce themselves and learn a few things about their fellow participants. This was followed by more interactive activity sessions, in which participants had to think on their feet as they worked together to solve various physical puzzles and challenges. By the time they returned to their seats, all the participants were smiling and chatting with each other, happy at having made new friends. The ice had been well and truly broken!

Participants introducing themselves to the group while coordinators cheer them on
The Ice-breaker activity "Mummy's Wrap" proved to be popular

 

Leadership Roles


The structure of the YLP favours the learning by doing approach and the participants get their first taste of the hands-on way of learning with the Chairmanship session. In order to impart the lessons of good and fair leadership, the youths were divided into groups of five, whereupon the coordinators then appointed each member in the group to one of four positions: President, Vice-President, Secretary and Sergeant-At-Arms. The responsibilities of each of the position were then explained to the participants and they had to carry out these responsibilities over the 2-day course. Many of the participants were apprehensive at first, this being their first time taking up leadership roles, but after seeking further clarification (a trait of a good leader!), they were more than willing to launch into their roles with gusto! 

The coordinators going through the responsibilities associated with each of the four leadership roles


The Competent Communication Sessions

For the rest of the first day and the first half of the second day, the participants learned various facets of public speaking. There are 6 sessions in total, with three being presented on Day One and the other three on Day Two.

The 6 sessions were (in order):

·         Introduction to Public Speaking
·         Impromptu Speaking
·         Organizing Your Speech
·         Listening
·         Gestures in Speaking
·         Voice and Vocabulary

Each of these sessions helped the participants delve into the finer points of public speaking. The lesson plan for each session had a general structure - the coordinator teaches the basics of that particular area, and then the hands-on learning follows in the form of the participants utilizing what they have just learned in front of their fellow participants, who then give them immediate feedback. Some of the participants were a bit hesitant to give feedback to their peers, as it was something new to them, but after seeing how giving feedback can help both themselves and their peers improve, they took up the task with enthusiasm and aplomb. 

The sessions were specifically designed to be very interactive in order to appeal to youths, which experienced Toastmasters have found is the best way to get youths interested in learning.

Listening in rapt attention as the coordinator highlights the importance of speech organization
Participants learning that being loose and relaxed helps when delivering their speeches
A participant going through an exercise focused on delivering emotions through facial expressions and vocal variety.

 

Speech Contest


After all the lessons on effective communication and putting them into practice, the participants were ready for the one thing that they were all looking forward to since Day One - the speech contest.

Held at the end of Day Two, the speech contest was the culmination of the 2-day course, a way for the participants to gauge just how much progress they've made over the last two days. And truth be told, a lot of the participants were excited to test out their newly-acquired skills in a competitive environment!

To make it a memorable event, the coordinators asked the participants to invite their parents to the contest. As expected, most were a little shy about their parents seeing them in action, but just before the contest started, a handful of parents stepped in, eager to see whether enrolling their children into the 2-day course had paid off!

The improvement was, without a doubt, significant. Whereas before the youthful participants had been shy and hesitant to speak up in front of their peers, by the time the speech contest got fully into gear, they were up there on the stage, brimming with confidence, moving with grace and poise, and speaking passionately and evocatively about their thoughts and ideas. The topics were as varied as the speakers: some talked lovingly about their mother or father, others about their favourite TV shows. Then there were those who decided to tackle the heavier issues like racism, the power of positive thoughts and the price of beauty that women often have to pay even in today's society.

Just looking at the participants getting up on stage and delivering their very best was enough to make the YLP coordinators proud and some even shed a tear or two. How much more powerful the feeling must have been in all the parents who attended - all were seen leaving with wide smiles on their faces, clasping their son or daughter on the back with pride.

What parent wouldn't be proud of such an achievement?

YLP Speech Contest Winners

 

Conclusion


Perhaps no conclusion paints a better picture of just how much having the confidence to communicate effectively can change a young person's life than when the writer met with one of the contestants privately to tell her that, although her contest speech may have been disqualified due to going over the time limit, the judges had given her high marks for her well-crafted speech. She was speechless for a few seconds but then tears of happiness welled up in her eyes, her entire face seemed to glow and she beamed the brightest smile this writer has seen in a long, long time. She then said a hearty "Thank you!" and ran to her waiting father, full of smiles, tears of joy and a radiant confidence that shone even brighter than the hot afternoon sun.

More photos and information at https://www.facebook.com/Friendshipylp
Photos and videos contributed by Treasurer Lee Chen Choon

Sincerely,
Timothy Nakayama
Vice President of Public Relations 2013-14

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

CHEN CHOON DID IT AGAIN!!!

From left to right: Elected Division W Governor 2013-14 Eric Low, 2nd Runner-Up Belinderjit Kaur (MAISCA TMC), 1st Runner-Up Lee Chen Choon (Friendship TMC), Champion Kenneth Yee (TDDI TMC) and Division W Governor 2012-13 Tan Lay Theng



Every term, Friendship Toastmasters Club presents quality and prominent speakers and this term it is no exception. Firstly, we had Timothy Nakayama who won as the 1st Runner-Up in District 51 Humorous Speech on 17th November 2012. 


Another champion speaker hails from Friendship Club is none other than Lee Chen Choon, who fought all the way to Division W International Speech Contest on 27th April 2013. He wonderfully claimed the trophy as the 1st Runner-Up winner. It was a stiff competition, and in the end Kenneth Yee from TDDI Toastmasters Club claimed as the champion in this contest. Nevertheless, we are proud of what Chen Choon has accomplished so far. His hard work, perseverance, humility and positive attitudes have inspired and motivated many other members to follow his footsteps. 


We strongly believe that Chen Choon will continue to soar to greater heights. Congratulations to our beloved member Chen Choon!