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Friday, July 8, 2016

Meeting Highlights on 5 July 2016 - Winners Never Quit and Quitters Never Win

The first meeting of this brand new term has started with a bang by our TME Benz Chan, CC


Table Topics Master, Malynda Tan has also enlightened us and fellow Table Topics speakers with thought-provoking topics like...


-          Cowards never start, the weak never finish and the winner never quit 
-          You aren’t defeated when you lose, you’re only defeated when you quit 
-          Run when you can, walk when you have to, crawl if you must, just never give up
-          It is hard to beat a person who never give up

 Past President Sylvia Tan, ACS attempted the Table Topics gracefully!


Through his project speech, Nicholas shared with us that he believes there is no loser in life. Sometimes winning is losing. For instance in a relationship, the guy who compromised may seem to be ‘losing’ the quarrel, in essence he is in the ‘winning’ to sustain the relationship.

The second project speaker, Carrie Ooi shared with us three simple ways to make the conversation meaningful:
1. Ask Why/How Questions
This helps to explore one’s underlying motives and get more thoughtful responses

2. Channel Curious George
Instead of asking the usual ‘where are you from?’ or ‘how are you today?’, try asking ‘did anything surprised you today?’

3. Ask for advice
Seek advice from people as generally we admire those who came to us for advice.

Last but not least, remember to maintain eye contact, sincere nodding and a bright smile!


Lay Theng, ACB, ALS the third project speaker enticed the crowd by sharing the breathtaking view of the peak of Mount Kinabalu. It sounds easy for anyone who is determined to join the expedition as there are only 3 requirements:
1. Safety
2. Mentally and physically strong
3. Team spirit

The crowd demonstrated strong interest and looking forward to the next briefing!


Time for the awards!!!
The Best Table Topics Speaker goes to...
Gerard Peter

The Best Project Speaker goes to...
Tan Lay Theng


The Best Evaluator goes to...
 Gerard Peter

Congratulations to all the winners and our Past President Sylvia Tan who has just achieved her ACS award! 



A token of appreciation for our hardworking General Evaluator, Yen Shen from KPMG KL Toastmasters Club. 

 A meeting wouldn't be complete without a fancy group photo!



During her second visit, our guest Gina has immediately signed up as our new member! 
WELCOME TO OUR BIG FAMILY, GINA!



Compiled by,
Chor Chee Hoe, ACS, ALB
Acting VP Public Relations 2016/2017

Saturday, July 2, 2016

Notice to Regular Meeting on 5 July 2016 - Winners Never Quit and Quitters Never Win


Vince Lombardi, a famous American football coach, once said, “A quitter never wins and a winner never quits”. We have heard of this saying at least once in our lives. And we all have had the opportunity to apply the saying to a part of our lives, be it in a sports team, in academics, at work or even in relationships. 

A winner is someone who is determined to reach his goals, no matter how arduous the journey may be. A winner is ready to face challenges and obstacles that may come in between him and his goals. On the other hand, a quitter gets perturbed by challenges, and in the midst, gives up. Because he is not determined to face the difficulties, he never reaches his goal and is declared a quitter.

To give up midway is easy but to continue despite challenges is difficult. That is why only winners are remembered for a long time. They are our role models, who teach us that it pays to never quit. Success only knocks on the doors of winners because they are determined in life. On the other hand, a quitter lives most of his life in regret because of his lack of motivation and dedication. 

Compiled by,
Keny Tai, CC
VPE 2016/2017
Friendship Toastmasters Club 

Sunday, June 26, 2016

21 Jun 2016 - Push Yourself, Don't settle, Just Live


Our meeting theme was inspired from the hottest movie in town - Me before You - “Push Yourself, Don’t Settle, Just Live

A bittersweet story about love, learning and letting go. This story stirs up the emotion of audience as it is real and gritty. There is laughter and sadness. It will make you feel uncomfortable at times but hopeful and thankful for the moment you have. The story does not preach what is right or wrong or try to sway you from one way or another. It’s the “everything” book. One that stays with you long after it is finished. It will “score your heart”. Sometimes six months can be the best six months of your life.

This is probably the conversation that the audience couldn’t forget. “Live boldly. Push yourself. Don’t settle. Wear those stripy legs with pride…Knowing you still have possibilities is a luxury…Just live well. Just live.” so, give all out and push yourself beyond limit.

The evening was gracefully kicked off by Ng Lai Leng, CC as the Toastmaster of the evening. 

Esten Tan, CC welcomes our newest member, Helen Lai by having an induction ceremony. 
Helen will be mentored by Lai Leng, CC who will guide her through her Toastmasters journey. 

June Gan, first time chairing the table topics session. The table topics blended very well to the meeting theme. 


We have 5 table topic speakers to try out the thought provoking topics. 
Lim Terng Fui - Push yourself because no one else will do it for you 
             
                                Esten Tan, CC - What is the most inspirational piece of advice you have received?
CP Lau, ACB, ALB - What gets you out of bed in the morning? 
Sivadas, CC - When is it okay to not push yourself? 

Geok Ean, CC, CL - Good, Better, Best. Never let it rest until your good is better, your better is best
Our first project speaker, Helen Lai delivered Project #1 Ice Breaker 
Title : My Journey 


Friendship Toastmasters club is honored to be the destination of Helen's journey. 



Our second project speaker, Keny Tai delivered Project #10 Inspire Your Audience  

Title : Wait No More 


What are the '10 things people regret before they die?" This inspiring speech by Keny reminded us 3 basic principles in our hectic lives: 
1. Make time for family
2. Speak your mind, do not hold back
3. Pursue your dream 

Our third project speaker, Sylvia Tan, ACB, CL delivered Project #5 The Oratorical Speech <Advance Communicator Manual - The Interpretive Reading>

Title : Barack Obama's New Hampshire Primary Speech


Members were greatly inspired by Obama's Presidential Speech, Sylvia version. 

- Evaluation is the key to Toastmasters - 

We are grateful to have a panel of evaluators to provide feedback to our fellow speakers to further challenge their performance! 

Benny Chia, IPP ITC Bintang Toastmasters Club was the Table topic evaluator. 
Tan Geok Ean, CC, CL - Evaluator for Helen Lai 
Tan Lay Theng, ACB, ALB - Evaluator for Keny Tai 
Chor Chee Hoe, ACS, ALB - Evaluator for Sylvia Tan, ACB, CL 

                                               Award Time!!!!!

Best table topic speaker goes to.... Tan Geok Ean, CC, CL 



Best prepared speech goes to Helen Lai! 



Best Speech Evaluator Goes to.... Tan Lay Theng, ACB, ALB. 

A big thank You to CP Lau, ACB, ALB (Money Mastery KL TMC) for being the General Evaluator for this meeting! 

As usual, the meeting ends with photo-taking and networking session. Looking forward to the next meeting! 










Word of the Day: Wondrous
Meaning: Extremely and surprisingly good
surprisingly good
Example of Usage: A wondrous sight 

Idion of the Day: Having a whale of a time 
Meaning : Have a very good or exciting or fun time 
Example of Usage: We really had a whale of a time in the party. 



Cheers,
Ng Lai Leng 
Vice President of Public Relations of Term 2015/2016